Hair product that makes my hair thin and soft to make it spiky?

I am an asian guy with thick, black wavy hair that's like clumps and sturdy. I wanted to know if theres a product that makes it thin, soft so i can spike it easier. I mean REALY thin and soft so that it DOESNT CLUMPS and stuff. thx!Hair product that makes my hair thin and soft to make it spiky?
wax or pomadeHair product that makes my hair thin and soft to make it spiky?
I would suggest going to a professional and having it thinned out . as much as possible. then visit your local sally beauty supply store where they have all types of products for your kind of hair. to keep it soft and manageble. and spiked if you want. hope this helps.