What is the strongest soft hair product you know?

I have really straight stiff/stubborn forward growing hair. I would like to stylize my hair up, but not make it look hard %26amp; sharp like gel, just like natural spikes/puff, as well as hold for more then 6 hours. Do you knowa kind and what brand you can suggest?What is the strongest soft hair product you know?
My brother has the same problem he uses this stuff... (It's a spiking gel)

http://www.hairproducts.com/view_product

and this one.. but its a litter pricier

http://www.amazon.com/Joico-ICE-Spiker-G



Good Luck!What is the strongest soft hair product you know?
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On my mohawk I use got2b freeze spray; works great and doesn't look greasy. You should also look into hair glue such as ICE Spiker (I really recommend this stuff.)
Shock Waves Strong Frizz Free Styling Cream is the best choice for u



go for it
you are a guy. dont worry.
use hair spray (extra strong hold) and a manly hair gel



merry xmas!
talk to your hairdresser. they will help :)