What mens hair product can I buy, that is ';dry look';?

I'm after a hair spray/gel/mousse that I can use that will hold my hair back, but doesn't look wet and hard when you touch it.


I am a man who has medium length hair. I want my hair to look dry and soft, (but to hold a style).





What can you recommend?What mens hair product can I buy, that is ';dry look';?
use a pomade, it works just like gel or spray but won't look a wet.