What hair product do I use to sleek my hair back without it lookin wet n weight down?

My hair is similar 2 Rihanna's( shaved on the sides n long in the front) I Like to sleek it back like the style is suppose 2 be but what hair product do I use to make it stay back!! I don't want it 2 look wet n weight down!! Iz there a specific hair product? I tried gel(left it lookin wet) n a weightless wax..plz help!!What hair product do I use to sleek my hair back without it lookin wet n weight down?
Coconut Oil gives it a natural look. They use it in tahiti. But it doesn't get cold there.